Tuesday, October 16, 2012

The language of LOVE

Ever wondered what gets your engine revving? What you appreciate most about people? Well your love language can say quite a  bit about you and what attracts you to other people.

Find out what your love language is by taking the quiz: www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/30-second-quizzes/love/

The 5 love languages are:
1.WORDS OF AFFIRMATION: actions dont always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicated compiments mean the world to you. Hearing the words I love you ae important to you, but hearing the reasons behind these words will send you into a skyward spiral. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten

2. QUALITY TIME: nothing says I love you like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but this time was be without distractions. The TV must be off and full attention must be given.

3. RECIEVING GIFTS: Dont mistake this love language for materialism, the reciever of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift.

4. ACTS OF SERVICE: Anything you do to ease the burden of responibilities weighing is an act of service. This speaks volumes to these type of people and the thing they mostly want to hear is let me help you with that.

5. PHYSICAL TOUCH: This language isnt about what happens in the bedroom. This person is a touchy peron. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touch to the shoulder, arm or face. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial and abuse can be destructive.

I tested my love language as well as my partners, and found out that both our languages are words of affirmation. This really made sense as I love how he was the first person to call me beautiful, and always calls me by this name. On a daily basis we make sure we say something nice to each other and start and everyday with the words i love you.

Its worthwhile taking the test, it gives you insight into your loving side.

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